Thread: Energy Vampires

Hi all,

I am a newbie and have a question on this matter. I have read about Energy Vampires on the internet as there is a lot of information regarding effects and prevention of etc.

However I was interested in specifics of energy vampires etc. I am single and have been using online dating recently. And have noticed a trend in the type of people I have been attracting. My recent online date (who I am soon to meet for the first time) recently revealed to me that she has been clinically depressed for the past 5 years, got over her breakdown, and is on medication. The last 5 online dates have all been similar (either suffering from depression, or back pain etc).

Have been chatting with the latest date for past 2 months, since which she has found herself a new job (Professional remuneration), and I have seen her confidence soar. Throughout our online conversations she has repeatedly stated how she loves my voice and my eyes (on the web cam) and has occasionally remarked that it makes her strong / more confident.

We are soon to meet; however, I am keen to remain as friends only. And cannot but help feel she is leeching (intentionally / unintentionally) on my energy and more importantly my opportunities.

Am I fantasying over something that does not exist, or do you think there is something in my observations. If so any tips or suggestions on how to protect myself would be appreciated.

Red-Ed

energy vampires is this new ? wow scary i vant to suck your neck lol weird dating site. you probably meet lots of vampires be careful

What are you afraid of? She wont zap all of your energy. The reason i think that shes having soo much energy is because your giving her good energy. Shes not leeching you but your helping(unintentionally). That a good start for both of you.

Fair point whoknows, yes I can recall incidents when I have been exhausted myself where my colleagues have given me an energy boost! Nothing intentional - happened unconsciously.

I posted this query on some other sites, and have had some interesting feedback. Yes it does say more about me - Self confidence, low esteem maybe? Law of attraction is in full effect.

More about me controlling my energy, and learning to shut down where appropriate.

No sucking (of the neck..), not yet in any case..!

Thanks for your replies.

Cheers

Hi Nina,

Its not like real vampires sucking blood and stuff. Its simialr to the saying - 'a problem shared is a problem halved', just people sapping you and draining your energy ifyou let them. I am sure we all have friends lke this.

Cheers
Red-Ed

how can energy be sucked if you do not exist hey hey

Fair point,

Birds of a feather flock together etc.
Interesting phenomenom though - loads of vids on YouTube about 'Energy Lovers'

Lol

Yep,

Them type of videos too!

The thing is, nobody can do anything to you without your permission - so in a sense we are complicit in the state we feel, through associations we have allowed to form. It has been said that we are an aggregate (personality wise) of the 5 people we associate with most. Choose your company wisely my ex said before she sucked the creative energy out of me...

Learn to give away and renew!

Well, I did cross post this thread two two other forums - which has also generated an interesting discussion.

In a sense I guess we all have the answers we seek within. I have learnt a number of spiritual techniques, and have received a number of tips to help shut down my energy where appropriate (if I feel I am being attacked).

If you want to read the discussion at the other forums, you can view them from the following links:

Energy Vampires - Page 3 - Spiritual Forums

http://family.psychics.co.uk/showthr...2427#post72427


Its all an education..

Most of these energy vampires are well-meaning, normal people. They are an unhappy lot, and do their damage by a telepathic draining of their victim's energy resources.A psychic vampire is a person or being who feeds off the life force of other living creaturesThey are constantly fixated with the doom and gloom of life. Everything is black and there is no white. In the event there is some element of positivity that enters their spectrum, they are quick to excuse that as a one-off encounter or see the dark side behind that.